ʻO ka huakaʻi o kahi ʻōpio me ka lolo maʻi lolo e hoʻokō i kāna mau moeʻuhane ua hoʻoneʻe i ka lehulehu i ka waimaka

I kekahi lā, ua holo ka makua kāne i ke kaʻa uila e halihali ana i kāna keiki a hoʻihoʻi mai i kahi pūʻolo "kaumaha" - he leka komo mai ke Kulanui ʻo Xiamen. Ua minoʻaka ka makua kāne a me ke keiki, ʻo kekahi me ka ʻakaʻaka, ʻo kekahi me ka mālie.

I kekahi lā, ua holo ka makua kāne i ke kaʻa uila e halihali ana i kāna keiki a hoʻihoʻi mai i kahi pūʻolo "kaumaha" - he leka komo mai ke Kulanui ʻo Xiamen. Ua minoʻaka ka makua kāne a me ke keiki, ʻo kekahi me ka ʻakaʻaka, ʻo kekahi me ka mālie.

I Nowemapa 2001, hānau ʻia ʻo Yuchen liʻiliʻi. Ma muli o ka paʻakikī o ka hānau ʻana, ua loaʻa ʻo ia i ka hypoxia i loko o ka lolo, ke kanu ʻana i kahi pōkā manawa i loko o kona kino liʻiliʻi. Ua mālama pono kona ʻohana iā ia, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke pale aku i ka pōʻino. I ka makahiki 7, ua ʻike ʻia ʻo Yuchen me ka "cerebral palsy koʻikoʻi."

Ua lilo ka ʻohana i ka hana a me ka huhū mai ia manawa. Ua huakaʻi lākou a puni ka ʻāina me Yuchen, e hoʻomaka ana i kahi huakaʻi lōʻihi a paʻakikī o ka mālama ʻana. ʻAʻole hiki iā Yuchen ke hele wāwae, no laila ua lawe kona makuakāne iā ia i nā wahi a lākou e hele ai. Me ka loaʻa ʻole o nā hoa pāʻani, ua lilo kona makuakāne i hoa maikaʻi loa nona, e hoʻokipa iā ia a e aʻo iā ia i ke kū ʻana a me ka hana ʻana i kēlā me kēia. No ka pale ʻana i ka atrophy a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana o ka ʻiʻo, pono ʻo Yuchen e hana i nā haneli o nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻolaʻa i kēlā me kēia lā - nā kikoo maʻalahi a me nā piko e koi ai i kāna hoʻoikaika nui i kēlā me kēia manawa.

ʻOiai ʻo nā keiki ʻē aʻe o kona mau makahiki e holo a pāʻani ana i ko lākou naʻau, hiki iā Yuchen ke hana i kāna aʻo ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā. Ua makemake kona makuakāne e hele ʻo ia i ke kula e like me ke keiki maʻamau, akā pehea lā e maʻalahi ai?

I ka makahiki 8, ua ʻae ke kula kumu mua iā Yuchen. Na kona makuakāne i lawe iā ia i loko o ka lumi papa, e ʻae iā ia e noho e like me nā keiki ʻē aʻe. I ka wā mua, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hele a hoʻohana i ka lumi hoʻomaha kaʻawale, pono ke kiaʻi mau, paʻakikī loa kēlā me kēia lā kula. Ma muli o ka atrophy o ka ʻiʻo, ʻaʻole naʻe ka lima ʻākau o Yuchen, no laila ua ʻuʻu ʻo ia i kona mau niho a hoʻoikaika pinepine i kona lima hema. I ka hopena, ʻaʻole wale ʻo ia i mākaukau me kona lima hema akā ua aʻo pū ʻo ia i ke kākau nani me ia.

Mai ka papa ʻekahi a i ka papa ʻehiku, ʻo kona makuakāne i lawe iā Yuchen i loko o ka lumi papa. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i hoʻōki i kāna hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻōla. Ma ka papa ʻewalu, me ke kōkua ʻana o nā kumu a me nā hoa papa, hiki iā ia ke hele i loko o ka lumi papa. Ma ka papa ʻeiwa, hiki iā ia ke hele wale i loko o ka lumi papa me ka paʻa ʻana i ka paia. Ma hope mai, hiki iā ia ke hele i 100 mika me ka hilinaʻi ʻole i ka pā!

Ma mua, ma muli o ka pilikia o ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka lumi hoʻomaha, ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e pale i ka inu wai a me ka sopa ma ke kula. Me ka ʻae o kona mau hoa papa a me nā mākua, ua hoʻoneʻe pono ke alakaʻi kula i kāna papa mai ka papahele ʻekolu a i ka papahele mua ma kahi kokoke i ka lumi hoʻomaha. Ma kēia ala, hiki iā ia ke hele hoʻokahi i ka lumi hoʻomaha. Ma ke ʻano he keiki me ka lolo lolo nui, e kū ana i kahi ala paʻakikī o ka hoʻonaʻauao, ua hiki iā Yuchen a me kona mau mākua ke koho e haʻalele, ʻoiai ʻo kēlā me kēia hana he haneli a he tausani paha ka paʻakikī ma mua o ka maʻamau. Akā ʻaʻole i manaʻo kona mau mākua e haʻalele iā ia, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i haʻalele iā ia iho.

Honi ʻo Fate iaʻu me ka ʻeha, akā ua pane wau me ke mele! I ka hopena, ua minoʻaka ka hopena i kēia kanaka ʻōpio.

Ua hoʻopā ka moʻolelo a Yuchen i nā kānaka he nui ma hope o ka laha ʻana ma ka pūnaewele. ʻO kona ʻuhane paʻa ʻole, ʻaʻole i hāʻule i ka hopena, he mea ia e aʻo ai kākou a pau. Eia nō naʻe, ma hope o Yuchen, ʻo kona ʻohana, nā kumu, a me nā hoa papa e pono ai ko mākou mahalo nui. ʻO ke kākoʻo o kona ʻohana i hāʻawi iā ia i ka hilinaʻi nui loa.

Ua ʻike nā mākua a pau i ka paʻakikī o ka hanai ʻana i ke keiki, ʻaʻole i ke keiki me ka lolo loloa. Ma waena o nā keiki maʻi lolo i kōkua ʻia, he nui ka poʻe e like me Yuchen—e like me Duo Duo, Han Han, Meng Meng, a me Hao Hao—a me nā mākua he nui e like me ka makua kāne o Yuchen, e pili ana i ka manaʻoʻiʻo ʻaʻole e haʻalele a haʻalele. . Hāʻawi kēia mau keiki i nā kānaka a me nā hanana like ʻole ma ko lākou ala e ʻimi ai i ke kōkua olakino. ʻO kekahi, e like me nā kumu kula o Yuchen, hāʻawi i ka mahanahana, a ʻo kekahi e nānā iā lākou me nā maka anuanu. He pōʻino nā keiki maʻi lolo; pono lākou e hoʻoikaika nui ma mua o nā kānaka maʻamau e ola. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻōla ʻia ka lolo lolo. Me ka ʻike ʻana i ka manawa, ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ikaika, a me ka hoʻomanawanui i ka hoʻoponopono hou ʻana, hiki i nā keiki he nui me ka lolo lolo ke hoʻomaikaʻi maikaʻi a loaʻa hou i ko lākou olakino. No laila, inā he makua ʻoe no ke keiki me ka lolo, mai haʻalele i kāu keiki.