Uhambo lwentsha ekhubazekile ebuchosheni ukuze afeze amaphupho akhe selubangele inqwaba yabantu izinyembezi

Ngolunye usuku, ubaba wagibela ibhayisikili likagesi ephethe indodana yakhe futhi wabuya nephakheji "elisindayo" - incwadi yokungena evela eNyuvesi yaseXiamen. Bobabili ubaba nendodana bamamatheka, omunye ehleka, omunye ngokuzola.

Ngolunye usuku, ubaba wagibela ibhayisikili likagesi ephethe indodana yakhe futhi wabuya nephakheji "elisindayo" - incwadi yokungena evela eNyuvesi yaseXiamen. Bobabili ubaba nendodana bamamatheka, omunye ehleka, omunye ngokuzola.

NgoNovemba 2001, uYuchen omncane wazalwa. Ngenxa yobunzima bokubeletha, waphathwa yi-hypoxia ebuchosheni, etshala ibhomu lesikhathi emzimbeni wakhe omncane. Umndeni wakhe wamnakekela ngokucophelela, kodwa awukwazanga ukuvimbela ukuhlasela kweshwa. Lapho eneminyaka engu-7 izinyanga, u-Yuchen kwatholakala ukuthi “une-cerebral palsy enkulu.”

Umndeni waba matasa futhi uyatatazela kusukela ngaleso sikhathi kuqhubeke. Bazungeza izwe lonke noYuchen, baqala uhambo olude nolunzima lokwelashwa. UYuchen wayengakwazi ukuhamba, ngakho uyise wayemthwala nomaphi lapho beya khona. Ngaphandle kwalabo adlala nabo, uyise waba umngane wakhe omkhulu, emjabulisa futhi emfundisa indlela yokuma nokuthatha izinyathelo kancane kancane. Ukuze avimbele ukuwohloka kwemisipha okuqhubekayo nokuwohloka, u-Yuchen kwadingeka enze amakhulukhulu okuzivocavoca umzimba nsuku zonke—ukulula nokugoba okwakudinga umzamo wakhe omkhulu isikhathi ngasinye.

Ngenkathi ezinye izingane zentanga yakhe zigijima futhi zidlala ngendlela egculisayo, u-Yuchen wayekwazi ukwenza ukuqeqeshwa kwakhe kwansuku zonke kokuhlunyeleliswa. Uyise wayefisa ukuthi aye esikoleni njengengane evamile, kodwa kwakungaba lula kanjani lokho?

Lapho ngineminyaka eyi-8, isikole samabanga aphansi sendawo samukela i-Yuchen. Nguyise lowo emqukula eyongena naye ekilasini, emvumela ukuthi ahlale njengezinye izingane. Ekuqaleni, ukungakwazi ukuzihambela noma ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese ngokuzimela, kudinga ukugadwa njalo, usuku ngalunye lwesikole lwaluyinselele emangalisayo. Ngenxa yokuwohloka kwemisipha, isandla sikaYuchen sokudla sasinganyakazi, ngakho waququda amazinyo futhi wasebenzisa isandla sakhe sobunxele ephindelela. Ekugcineni, akagcinanga nje ngokuba nekhono ngesandla sobunxele kodwa wafunda nokubhala kahle ngaso.

Kusukela ebangeni lokuqala kuya kwelesikhombisa, nguyise owayethwala uYuchen ekilasini. Akazange ayeke ukuqeqeshwa kwakhe kokubuyisela esimweni esihle futhi. Lapho ebangeni lesishiyagalombili, ngosizo lothisha nabafundi afunda nabo, wayesekwazi ukungena ekilasini. Lapho enza ibanga lesishiyagalolunye, wayesekwazi ukungena ekilasini yedwa ebambelele odongeni. Kamuva, yakwazi nokuhamba amamitha ayikhulu ngaphandle kokuncika odongeni!

Phambilini, ngenxa yokungasebenzi kahle kwendlu yangasese, ubezama ukugwema ukuphuza amanzi nesobho esikoleni. Ngemvume yabafundi afunda nabo kanye nabazali, ubuholi besikole basusa ikilasi lakhe ngokuqondile ukusuka esitezi sesithathu baya esitezi sokuqala eduze nendlu yangasese. Ngale ndlela, wayekwazi ukuzihambela yedwa aye endlini yangasese. Njengengane enokukhubazeka okukhulu kobuchopho, ebhekene nendlela enzima kangaka yemfundo, u-Yuchen nabazali bakhe babengase bakhethe ukuyiyeka, ikakhulukazi njengoba isinyathelo ngasinye sasinzima izikhathi eziyikhulu noma eziyinkulungwane kunokuvamile. Kodwa abazali bakhe abazange bacabange ukumyeka, futhi akazange azilahle.

Udalelwa wangiqabula ngobuhlungu, kodwa ngasabela ngengoma! Ekugcineni, isiphetho samamatheka kule nsizwa.

Indaba kaYuchen isithinte abantu abaningi ngemva kokusabalala ku-inthanethi. Umoya wakhe wokunganqotshwa, ukunganqotshwa ukudalelwa, yinto sonke okufanele sifunde kuyo. Nokho, ngemva kukaYuchen, umkhaya wakhe, othisha nabafundi afunda nabo nabo bafanelwe inhlonipho ejulile. Ukusekelwa umkhaya wakhe kwamenza waqiniseka kakhulu.

Wonke umzali uyazi ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukukhulisa ingane, ingasaphathwa eyokukhubazeka okukhulu kobuchopho. Phakathi kwezingane ezinokukhubazeka kobuchopho eziye zasizwa, kunabaningi abanjengoYuchen—njengoDuo Duo, uHan Han, uMeng Meng, noHao Hao—nabazali abaningi abanjengoyise kaYuchen, abanamathela esivumweni sokholo sokungalokothi balahle noma bayeke. . Lezi zingane zihlangana nabantu nemicimbi eyahlukene endleleni yazo yokufuna usizo lwezempilo. Abanye, njengothisha basesikoleni saseYuchen, banikeza imfudumalo, kuyilapho abanye bebabheka ngamehlo abandayo. Izingane ezine-cerebral palsy zinebhadi; kudingeka benze umzamo omkhulu kunabantu abavamile ukuze baphile. Nokho, i-cerebral palsy ayelapheki. Ngokutholwa ngesikhathi, ukwelashwa okusebenzayo, nokuphikelela ekuhlumelelweni, izingane eziningi ezine-cerebral palsy zingathuthuka kakhulu futhi zibuyise impilo yazo. Ngakho-ke, uma ungumzali wengane ene-cerebral palsy, sicela ungalokothi uyilahle ingane yakho.